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The Musings of a Modern Day Mistress



She comes along,
She gets inside,
She makes you better than anything you've tried.
It's in her kiss,
The blackest sea,
And it runs deeper than you
Dare to dream it could be.

Wave goodbye,
To what you were,
The rules have changed,
The lines begin to blur.
She makes you hard,
It comes on strong,
You finally found,
The place where you belong.

Very introspective, but I'm taking this as a compliment from a very special slave.



When thinking
changes your mind,
That's philosophy.
When God changes your mind,
That's faith.
When facts change your mind,
That's science.
When I change your mind,
That's domination!



The papers and the news are still full of doom, gloom and New Year diets (yuck)!
 
So possibly the best way to banish the post Christmas blues, and the usual New Year's resolution failures is to not read the papers,  ignore the news, forget trying to diet and remember that the secret of the greatest fruitfulness and the greatest enjoyment of existence is: To live dangerously!


Rumour has it that The Killers 'Human' is referencing a quote by H S Thompson, regarding the fact that the US are breeding a generation of dancers instead of sportsmen ( I guess, as he is a sports journalist). Despite researching said journalists 'quotable quotes' I failed to find a single reference to it, and having listened to the lyrics, because I love the song, I think references to 'the platform of surrender' and being  'on my knees, looking for the answer' means this song is about submission....... So what are you? Human or dancer????


'Heaven is a place on Earth' was playing on the radio when I opened the card with this poem inside....
 
In that deep and tranquil space,
There's nobody but you.
You're where I breath my oxygen,
you're where I see my view.
And when the world seems full of noise,
my heart knows what to do,
It finds that deep and tranquil space
and dances there with you.
 
Beautiful and very special - Thank you Mi camino...


Please could all the media and politicians stop feeding us recession stories? All they are doing is creating a self fulfilling prophecy - just like the one below which illustrates just how the markets work!....
 
The chief of a Native American tribe was asked in the autumn if the winter was going to be cold or mild. Being a 21st-century chief he had no idea, but said that it was going to be cold and told the people in his village to collect wood.
A few days later he rang the National Weather Service.
"Yes, it is going to be cold," they told him, so he went back to his people and told them to collect more wood.
A week later he called again. "Is it going be a cold winter?" he asked. "Yes, very cold."
So he went back and told his people to collect every bit of wood they could.
Two weeks later he called again. "Yes," he was told, "it is going to be one of the coldest winters ever."
"How can you be so sure?" the chief asked.
The weatherman replied: "The Native Americans are collecting wood like crazy."


"Normal is getting dressed in clothes that you buy for work and driving through traffic in a car that you are still paying for - in order to get to the job you need to pay for the clothes and the car, and the house you leave vacant all day so you can afford to live in it". (Ellen Goodman)

On that basis who wants to be normal?????


Yesterday was beautiful and sunny, today is overcast and gloomy. Yesterday I was feeling inspired, today I am not - what a difference the sun makes! I found this poem whilst looking through my little book of inspirational 'stuff'. So often our lives follow the same routine and pattern, and we constantly find ourselves making the same choices, even though we know they are not right for us. Sometimes you just have take a deep breath, and make conscious choice to do something different, and take responsibility for your own destiny, where ever it may take us, and with whom ever it be, and not simply follow the crowd and it's conventional 'wisdom' - after all look what happens to lemmings.......  

AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN FIVE SHORT CHAPTERS
by Portia Nelson

I

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk
I fall in.
I am lost ... I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes me forever to find a way out.

II

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place
but, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

III

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in ... it's a habit.
my eyes are open
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

IV

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

V

I walk down another street.


My beautiful and devious assistant, angel, has pointed out to me that suspicious partners sometimes "google" telephone numbers to find out to whom they belong. I have, therefore, instructed my webslave to obfuscate my number to prevent search engines from finding it. This will enable me to keep my description of "beyond discrete"! It will be interesting to know how long it will take for the search engines to forget my number!   


Whilst examining the contents of the box containing my new cat flap I came across an interesting booklet. A "user guide"...... the only challenge that remains is how to teach my cat to read it! 


I came across this amusing quotation attributed to Elmo Phillips the other day and felt it worthy of sharing:
"You don't appreciate a lot of stuff in school until you get older. Little things like being spanked every day by a middle-aged woman. Stuff you pay good money for later in life."  


My thanks to a new slave for this rather beautiful Sonnet:
 
To My Lady Trinity

This slave prepares to serve you and to please
His Mistress: naked, humbled, on his knees.
He longs to satisfy and please you ‘til
He bends himself to your sadistic will.
He will be yours to punish, torture, use
For your delight. A plaything that you use
To whip, to clamp, electric shock and cane.
In slavery, in suffering, in pain.

 My Lady, you I promise to obey
To honour and revere in every way
By my submissiveness revealed will be
The dominance of Lady Trinity.

  So Lady, soul and body I commit
To serve you. To adore you. To submit.

  
 

"There are two things a real man likes, danger and play. That is why he likes women, they are the most dangerous of all play things."
*Nietzche*

My thanks again to Ededas for sending me another interesting quote!
 


The Guardian prides itself on targeting the well educated - but recently proved itself to be sadly lacking in its knowledge of English language. It defined the word URTICATE as "to beat with a whip" whilst those of us who are better informed (or experienced!) know that it means to sting or whip with nettles!

 

Sexual Desire, Domination, Submission.... and Opera
An Evening with Lady Trinity and Sapphire

Well - sapphire and I did go to the ball - or rather the opera courtesy of a suitable submissive who will remain nameless for obvious reasons.............

The opera was excellent - I would recommend it should it ever be repeated as alas it's run is now over. We caused quite a stir - but really - what do they expect one to wear when one attends an opera such as 'The Bitter Tears of Petra von Kant'?
Just because my beautiful forties style cocktail dress was made of pink rubber, and sapphire was wearing her collar and lead (to ensure we didn't get separated in the crowd!), we attracted quite a lot of attention - luckily all of it favourable - it was amazing the number of ladies who came up and asked where our outfits came from............
 
It reminded me of another time when I went to see 'Saucy Jack and the Space Vixens' (a fetish musical) wearing a full length rubber skirt and a metal bra. One of the support cast, who was from Madame JoJo's, called me 'the lady with the titanium tits'. I wish! I didn't have the heart to say that they were actually
polished mild steel................. 
 
We are now planning our outfits for our next formal outing - Ladies Day at Ascot...............

The thoughtful souls at Reading Borough Council have placed a preservation order on the woodlands surrounding my chambers. This covers not only the Ash, Oaks, Willow and Elder trees but also the URTICA DIOICA!
For the uninitiated, these are the Stinging Nettles!

Here's a little poem from my childhood that somehow crystallises some of today's more unfortunate attitudes. I would be interested to hear if any of you have heard it before and if anyone knows of it's origins.
 My father taught it to me and I have never heard it anywhere else.

Across the open moorland, the rain was falling fast,
and through the dripping heather, a Goblin hurried past.
His eyes were small and cunning, his hair was very red,
and he had a green umbrella which he held above his head.

"Oh please will you allow me?" a tiny fairy cried,
"To share your green umbrella by keeping at your side?"
"GOOD GRACIOUS!" said the Goblin, "cannot you plainly see,
that under my umbrella, there's only room for ME!"

The Bakerloo line is not exactly a stimulating place to be, especially when one is crushed against a lot of unhappy commuters. I did, however, feel inspired enough to write this poem:

 The yearning begins with a vision
A goddess, leather, latex and lace
Whose endless legs you recognise
from troubled dreams, her face.

And eyes draw you, to break free
from the shackles of vanilla life.
But the weeks slip by unnoticed
as you pace within a cage, moral rife.

There is nothing wrong with that inner call.
Answer it and your spirit will be grown.
But leave it too long and the light will go out,
and you'll pass by, never known.

                                                          Trinity

For the literati amongst you, a test on English grammar!
Rewrite this phrase with the correct punctuation:

WOMAN WITHOUT HER MAN IS A SAVAGE

Click here or scroll to the bottom for the answer!

I am beginning to wonder whether my title for this section is appropriate ............
I considered myself to be a fairly modern thinking Mistress, and used to use as a strap line a rather poignant motto thus:-

'Work like you don't need the money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
and dance like no-body's watching'

It was bounced back to me by a rather maverick friend of mine as this: -

'Love like you need the money,
Dance like it hurts,
and work when someone is watching.'

Perhaps I am more of a Renaissance Mistress after all!

"Man is the one who desires, woman the one who is desired.
 This is woman’s entire but decisive advantage.
 Through man’s passions, nature has given man into woman’s hands,
 and the woman who does not know how to make him her subject,
 her slave, her toy, and how to betray him with a smile in the end is not wise."

Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch (1835–1895), Venus in Furs (1870)

Thanks to Tim for sending that gem to me.

Well, of course, the correct punctuation is:

WOMAN, WITHOUT HER, MAN IS A SAVAGE.

For those of you who said it was "Woman without her man, is a savage", shame on you! Perhaps you were hoping I will be savage with you!

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